What I were wearing was totally casual.
Even I went to a bar in Manhattan... Actually it was a gay bar! So I didn't feel nervous to choose the casual clothes.When I go to the bars or nightclubs,,, I'm sometimes nervous. 'cuz the girls in that place are always sparkle!
Anyway, I was absolutely enjoying there. You can see that from my pictures!!!
And now.... I really wanna go there again!
I can wear what I wanna wear, enjoy w/o male friends and don't need to care about other guys even if there is no male friends.
I recommend you to go to a gay bar!!! It also must be fun for you.